Yeay, branding, when it's all about products, i do it a lot at my work in Marketing Communication. But when it's all about ourselves with no limitation, then we should think again.
We have been taught to show the best of us to the public ever since we were still a little kid. When we are at school, we are introduced to scoring and ranking system. When we graduate, we have to get a job by making the best cv and be the best candidate at the interview. Well, that's completely normal.
But when we have to brand ourselves all the time, even down to every private moments, isn't it exhausting?
Sadly, we are too busy making grand display of ourselves in medias, we forget taking care of our real life, dealing with the things that matter.
We can have bigger chance to be stronger or more intelligent by studying, rather than by posting a quiz result about it.
Sometimes we are so busy taking pictures and posting and checking in, we forget to enjoy the view.
We are busy trying to control what other people see in us, we forget that however we want to control all perspectives of other people, we just can't.
Haters gonna hate anyway. You cannot just make everybody happy.
But if there is still some part of you who want to try, yes, there's something we can do.
An attempt to take control of what other people see in us, is simply by improving our real personality, not necessarily just by updating our profile page.
Don't take this the wrong way, you can still have fun and post all the happy pictures or statuses of yours. What i am trying to say here, that the posting and the updating and the everybody else seeing part, are great (for fun), but none of them are the most important part.
The most important part is how we can see and improve ourselves and enjoy our life to the fullest. Do real good things to people. Make real contribution to the world. Start deleting your bad habits, not just your bad photos.
In the end, once a person told me:
It's not how people judge us that should be important, it is how we want them to see us that important.
Yes, by all the real things we do for ourselves.
We have been taught to show the best of us to the public ever since we were still a little kid. When we are at school, we are introduced to scoring and ranking system. When we graduate, we have to get a job by making the best cv and be the best candidate at the interview. Well, that's completely normal.
But when we have to brand ourselves all the time, even down to every private moments, isn't it exhausting?
Sadly, we are too busy making grand display of ourselves in medias, we forget taking care of our real life, dealing with the things that matter.
We can have bigger chance to be stronger or more intelligent by studying, rather than by posting a quiz result about it.
Sometimes we are so busy taking pictures and posting and checking in, we forget to enjoy the view.
We are busy trying to control what other people see in us, we forget that however we want to control all perspectives of other people, we just can't.
Haters gonna hate anyway. You cannot just make everybody happy.
But if there is still some part of you who want to try, yes, there's something we can do.
An attempt to take control of what other people see in us, is simply by improving our real personality, not necessarily just by updating our profile page.
Don't take this the wrong way, you can still have fun and post all the happy pictures or statuses of yours. What i am trying to say here, that the posting and the updating and the everybody else seeing part, are great (for fun), but none of them are the most important part.
The most important part is how we can see and improve ourselves and enjoy our life to the fullest. Do real good things to people. Make real contribution to the world. Start deleting your bad habits, not just your bad photos.
In the end, once a person told me:
It's not how people judge us that should be important, it is how we want them to see us that important.
Yes, by all the real things we do for ourselves.
